I am the meanest mom ever or so Treycen says... First let me give you some history of Treycen and his behavior these past couple months...
Treycen is very strong willed and very stubborn, he has a very bad temper and lately he is out of control... He says very mean things, he tells me he hates me on a daily basis he tells his grandma he hates her and he told his Aunt he wishes she would die in a car crash and not to mention he told Jared he was a stupid jerk and these are just his words his actions are also very mean, he hits me all the time and he throws things, he's out of control... He has no respect for his toys, people, pretty much anything he acts as though he is entitled to have what ever he wants when he wants and he does not care who's feelings are hurt in the process... I take full accountability for his actions and behavior, I have not been the best mom when it comes to punishment or setting examples and being consistent with daily behavior and manners... Well Its time I step back and take control, I have decided to start all over, I know I am 4 years to late but I am now taking responsibility and making a huge change... With the help of family, friends and Barnes and noble I will get educated on how to be the very best mom I can be and teach treycen the rules of life and what attitude is expected... I have taken all of Treycen's toys away, no toys, no TV, no play dates, no more candy and sugar sweets... I know some of you may think this is very rude and I am the meanest mom ever but like I said I am starting over, he will learn the rules and learn to respect me and others and in doing this he will get rewarded with his toys and privileges... I am also taking this opportunity to train myself on my behavior by setting a higher standard for myself and my attitude... I need to be more aware of my actions and what example I am setting for my children...
Treycen's empty closet... He is slowly starting to understand why we did this and I think with time he will learn to follow the rules, use his manners and be the sweet loving little boy we all know he can be...
I love you Treycen and I am not doing this out of anger or hate, I am doing this because I love you soooo much and I want you to be the very best person you can be...
Since I was the one that gave you the idea, I must be the meanest mom ever too, and I think I am a pretty cool mom. ;) It took Jay about a month to get all her toys back when we did it, so stay strong. Good luck, we love you little Trey and little Trey's mom.
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